Videos
No one knows the inside of Christian Fundamentalism like a wife who lived it. I share the nitty-gritty realities, untangle coded language, and turn the tables on my fundie mentors. My videos on what it’s really like to live in Christian Fundamentalism are on Instagram, Facebook and Tiktok. My hope is to create content that educates, promotes trauma healing, and supports those who have loved ones in fundamentalism.
Here’s a directory by topic.
Fundie Fundamentals:
- Infertility
- Quiverfull
- Blanket Training
- Federal Marriage
- Complementarianism
- A Woman’s World
Christian Fundamentalism:
- Non-denominational
- A pyramid scheme
- Dangerous to Religious Freedom
- Presented as a solution to the human experience
- Dangerous
- Built Through Recruitment
- Dependent on Women to Sustain
- Spread Through Mainline Churches
- Beautiful
- A Long Game to the Top
- Not Just Another Flavor of Christianity
- Exploits Motherhood
- Religious Freedom For Them, Not You
- Not Fringe (My Background)
- Denies Anyone Unlike Them
- Serves Pretty Ideals
- Headed for a Theocracy
The Duggars and 19 Kids and Counting
- Anna’s Mindset
- The Duggars’ Motives
- The Duggars Don’t Watch TV
- The Hidden Influence of the Duggars’ shows
- JB Lost His Senate Race: Women and Voting
- Is Anna a Victim?
- Did Something With the Duggars Feel “Off?”
- Jim Bob Wants a Different Outcome
- Parents Have Good Intentions
- Fear as a Reason for Manipulation and Control
- Fundamentalism is Spread through Homeschooling Conventions
- Overwhelmed by Michelle
- Sex Education in Fundie Families
- They Didn’t Set Out to Raise a Felon
- How Cycles Start: Jim Bob Learned From Michael Gott
- Jim Bob Lies
- Anna’s Destiny
- Jurisdictions: Groomed for Political Leadership
- Groomed to Govern
- What Do the Duggar Numbers Mean? (Dominionism)
- Are the Bates the Same as the Duggars?
- The Bates Don’t Look as Fundie
- Josh is Not Just a Bad Apple
- Jana Duggar: America’s Most Famous Stay-At-Home-Daughter
- The Duggar’s House Build
- Michelle’s Letter to the Judge
- Josh Duggar’s Family Fan Club
- Josh Duggar’s Love for Widows is a Fundie Dogwhistle
- Josh Duggar’s Sentencing– Mom Didn’t Attend
- Obedience Culture: The First Time I Say It
- Obedience Culture: Don’t Raise Adults
- Priscilla Waller: Love Is Endless Giving
Falling Into Fundamentalism
- First Baptist Church, Jacksonville: Meeting My Mentors
- What is Church-Sanctioned Domestic Violence?
- Scary Mommies (Michelle Duggar, Debbie Pearl, and Blanket Training)
- Our Religious Dominance
- Homeschooling Conventions
- Homeschooling Can Be Good. It Can Also Shelter Abuse
- Traumversary
- The Shepherds Were More Dangerous Than the Wolves
- What Church is That?
- Shaming Sex and Nervous System Overload
- Voice Modulation & Fascinating Womanhood
- Turn to the Church?
- Removing Everyone Who Doesn’t Agree With You
- Loneliness: How I Changed Rapidly in Fundamentalism
- Home Church (Family Integrated Church Movement)
- Undereducating Girls On Purpose
- Return of the Daughters: SAHD
- Bill’s Quiet Voice
- Judging Others
- The Newlyweds Class
- Not All Christians, Not All Churches
- Women have ONE job
- What if Our Public Schools Become Christian Schools?
- The Patriarchs Think They’re the Smartest Guy in the Room
- Little Did I Know: A Lifetime of Consent
- We Decided You Shouldn’t Exist
- Stare At Your Man With Constant Adoration
Bill Gothard – the Institute of Basic Life Principles
- Eye Traps (Anna Duggar at Josh’s trial)
- Courtship versus Dating
- IBLP Lies (pt 1)
- IBLP Lies (pt 2)
- Pyramid Schemes
- Dominionism
- True or False: Have You Been Deceived?
- Using the Abortion Issue to Spread Dominionism
Things My Gothard Fundie Mentors Said I Could Skip to Have a Quiverfull
- THE ‘YOU CAN SKIP’ INTRO
- Well-child visits (and pediatricians)
- Academics
- Haircuts
- Shopping
- Playdates
- Socialization
- Extended Family
- Birth Control
- Rest
- Mom-friends
- A Second Income
- The Teen Years
- Toys
- Snacks
- Education for Girls
- The Gynecologist
- Consent
- Sleepless Nights (Babywise)
- Privacy
- The Dentist
- Separate Bedrooms
- Babyfood
- Pants
- Voting
- Therapy
- Art
- Debt
Healing
- Sensitive versus Sensational
- The “I Can” List: Boundaries
- Why Don’t Headlines Shut Cults Down?
- Believing Survivors
- The End of Endless Debates
- What I’ve Learned From Sharing My Story
- The Freedom to Change My Mind
- How to Connect With Someone in Cognitive Dissonance
Call It What It Is: the Definitions Series
Grosser Than Gross: Fundy Style
Red Flag Alerts
- Long Explanations (Word Salad)
- Misplaced Blame
- We Own the Truth
- Statement of Faith
- Obscure Materials
- Constant Reassurance
The Real Housewives of Christian Fundamentalism
Sunday School Stories
The Human Experience
Big Scandals & Documentaries
Reproductive Rights
- Ectopic Pregnancy
- Do The Math: Birth Control
- Do the Math: The Domestic Supply of Babies
- Do the Math: What Do You Do When You’re Not Pregnant
- Personhood
- As An Evangelical I Voted Against Your Autonomy
- Denying a 10-year old abuse victim medical treatment: Two Wrongs
- The Congressional vote on Birth Control
