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“Friends on the internet” saved my life, helped me navigate danger and divorce, and offered a portal into another world––one where women could be educated, healthy, and free. Connection is powerful! And for those trapped in abuse, an online connection may be the only connection they have. You’ll never hear me knock social media and I love connecting with you there. Find me on Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok.

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Interested in coaching?

Do you feel broken and empty after trying so hard to live a devoted life?

Are you confused about how to regroup, reframe, and bounce back after your dreams and years were stolen from you?

I’ve been there.

I’m developing coaching opportunities to pass on what I learned about starting over. I want to walk you through how to:

  • set and hold boundaries,
  • free your mind from manipulation tactics,
  • develop autonomy,
  • heal from trauma,
  • regulate your fried nervous system,
  • develop a professional identity,
  • and parent your kids without fundamentalist influence.

I know how to get up and start again after being smashed by the patriarchy. We each have one wild and precious life* to live. You can’t get back your lost years. But you can move forward in reclamation, redemption, and power.

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*Mary Oliver